As a mom, do you ever look at your precious child(ren) after a looooong week, or day, or, let's be real, hour, and think, "What can I do with you?" The kind of question that really means, "Mama's bout to lose it if we don't find a new happy for you my sweet child!"
...I know I do! I love my children. All three of them. In different and unique ways, they shape me. But sometimes I just want to say, “Lord, I think I'm in good enough shape for today! Thank you!”...You know what I mean?
But speaking of shape, y'all it is a new year and aren’t you SO excited about the guilt of New Year’s resolutions? I’ve never been a resolution maker, but I sure have been on the side of feeling less than because I wasn’t doing some drastic change in my life, career, or relationships. So here’s what I’ll say to that: Put Jesus first and then, girl, you do you! Resolve to make changes that are reasonable and DOABLE for you and your family. Not everyone has 27hrs a day (see what I did there) to dedicate to the gym, or making homemade organic EVERYTHING, or homeschooling their children, or climbing the career ladder to success when quite frankly, they’re afraid of heights! So again, you do you. I am a firm believer that we add stress and concerns to our lives that the Lord never intended for us. Then days, weeks, or months later, we are at the throne of God BEGGING for Him to help us. Hello. He never intended for you to have it to begin with. Seek Him first…sound familiar? btw this is 100% the Lord speaking to my life right now… What am I adding to my plate that the Lord knows I have no appetite for? Think on it.
Ok back to our precious children. We love them, but sometimes we feel crazy in the role of mother, am I right? Not to mention when we have the roles of wife, housekeeper, entrepreneur, doctor, policewoman, peacekeeper, cook, interior designer, gardener…I know it’s not just me, y’all! Some of us have a lot on us. And if we don’t have a lot, the little we do have keeps us plenty busy. But let’s remember to keep those roles in check and prioritized. First off, we have to remember our role as daughter to the one true King, the most high God, the good good Father. Forgetting that or failing to acknowledge that by spending time with Him daily will result in an unraveling of all other roles. We will seek fulfillment from a source other than Him, and that’s putting pressure where it was never meant to be. Our fulfillment is found in Him. Everything else is just added blessings.
Okay, onto our other roles! Next we are loving, respectful wives to our husbands, and grace-giving, merciful mamas to our sweet babies… Guess what? It was super easy to type those fancy adjectives that describe our roles as a wife and mama, but, y’all, it is a hard walk! Our sin-nature mixes the order of these roles, and our sin-nature does not like all this love, grace, and mercy. But that’s when we remember whose daughter we are…that’s when that primary role becomes most important! When we walk with Jesus daily, when we know His truths, when we pray them over our families, we become the likeness of Jesus to our spouses and kids. Yes, we make mistakes, but that’s because we become like Jesus, but we are in no way Jesus, and we need to make sure we keep that in line. Pride, arrogance, self-righteousness- these are nasty little things that can get the best of us and render us useless or worse, harmful to our families. Seek Him first…do I hear an echo?
"When we walk with Jesus daily, when we know His truths, when we pray them over our families, we become the likeness of Jesus to our spouses and kids."
So in an effort to bring some peace to your sweet but tired mama-mind, remember this…whether it’s your resolution, the moment to moment rambles, or your roles that have you feeling in over your head…take a deep breath, step back, and seek the Father. He wants to be a part of our lives and help us get out of the crazy that we put ourselves in…and also, He has a pretty good sense of humor and sometimes just wants to be along for the ride!
With love & laughter,
“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
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